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the SiSter -Act-

9 comments so far| since Nov 2009 10:56PM

In the recent past we have all started this BRO/SIS craze.. Its a term of endearment or sometimes just laziness for people to call another by their real names.

It can be meant to be sweet and show the care you have for the person it’s referring to but

how much do we really like or love our “brothers and sisters”?

Do we help them in times of need, do we give them words or encouragement, or have we ever even just offered them up in prayer?

I think the best thing you can do for a friend is to pray for them. If they have some concerns at any given time, then pray with them.

Many of our needs and wants can be solved if you put all the effort you consume worrying and being upset in a few minutes of prayer. Some of our prayers will not have the answers we are hoping for but they have an answer nevertheless. An “unanswered” prayer is an answer, we just often choose not to see the other options given to us. Have you ever tried so hard to get into that opened door then when you got inside there was nothing for you to do but sit? Then you pray for window of opportunity and because you’ve been seated so comfortably in that same old seat that you cant manage to get your self to that opening?

Comfort is a good thing to have but if you are in a place where you are too content that you are not fulfilling the purpose of your being then you will never have that satisfaction.

I have three sisters one is my ate Farrah whom I was born of the same mother and lived with since birth we parted ways when she and my mom decided to move back to the US after I was engaged in 1993. CIMG0090there is my half sister from my father, ate Mickey who I only met when I was 12 and Karla another half sister from my dad that I am sadly not in touch with and then my sissy’s for life the women I have been leaning on and opening up to since I’m not always with my REAL sisters.IMG_8565DSC_10559224_290144285117_580135117_8965562_7809962_n
I love them ALL so much regardless of any circumstance. I cant be with them all the time and now that we are older we are apart most of the time. But the one thing that keeps us together in my heart is the constant prayers I have for them. And I think no matter what gaps we have as sisters parents, oceans, time ; prayers will fill them in and make us SOLID.

One day I will dedicate a board for certain concerns, for now Im waiting on my webguy to resurface! M.I.A

9 comments in all

  • Jenny November 5th, 2009

    …aawww ! na miss ko tuloy mga bro ko.
    prayer po talga ang dapat.. i love ur site ms.jackie! hope to see u again when u get here in manila.
    the last tym i saw u ay sa party ng kids ni ate abbey..liit pa po ni jared non ang gwapo nya po:)

  • Gracie November 5th, 2009

    love your post! like you, i have sisters. i love them both despite of all the differences&statuses. after all, we came from one mother. i’am so happy that now we have the chance to meet up at least once every month, we make sure that we bring out the best out of it while our youngest haven’t decided yet in moving in ny.

    i love calling our girls “sis” especially when i found out that we have something in common. not calling them sis or bro just to be in. but I show them the love that I also have for my sisters&friends.

    i’ll link you in my site. take care, ate!

  • love lao November 6th, 2009

    nice blog! hi! my name is love lao frm las vegas. i’m interested with ur make over. i need a makeover!!!! new hairstyle, haircut etc.

  • Lourdes November 6th, 2009

    do you have a salon in LA?

  • jackieforster November 6th, 2009

    not YET :) God willing I will one day. Taking baby steps.. thank you for asking!

  • Tiffny November 7th, 2009

    I now learned to call sis only to people that i am really connected with, because not all might share the same feelings as yours if you call them sis or bro., esp here in the US, people rather you call them by their name than aunt, uncle, sir, mister, miss, etc but sa Pinas, i call all my friends sis kc we all are like sisters at heart

  • Karla Stride November 11th, 2009

    I have 1 step brother and no biological sis however I am blessed with good hearted friends I consider as sis/bro. Special people that touched my heart. Friends are the family we choose

  • kish del rosario January 13th, 2010

    hey jackie! i know how close farrah and you are. miss her craziness also. My sister and i were close too and i am really thankful that i have her to lean on. it’s important that we have them in our lives. best wishes to you!!

  • kansascz March 16th, 2010

    And you do not know, how it is possible to find the author and to talk to it concerning this information. Someone can knows it ICQ?

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